![]() ![]() Next ask your client to consider their current relationship partner or friend. ![]() Using a Blank Coaching Wheel (free), ask your client to label the page their Relationship Wheel, and then label the wheel segments with the 8-10 most important qualities they think a life-partner, friend or lover should have.Who for: Whilst decisions of the heart shouldn't be made solely with the 'head' or analytical left-brain, sometimes a little left-brained analysis can help us see what we're missing-whether it's that someone deserves a second chance, or that we need to move on. In Summary: This is a potentially deep exercise, and helps a client prioritise the qualities they look for-or value-in a life partner. How might they change the way they evaluate people they meet in future?.What did they learn from doing this exercise?.As they look at the list of qualities they chose, what is missing from their list?.What do they notice as they look at their scores?.Tip: You can make this exercise more interesting by giving ½ point for a slight or possibly improvement, 1 for improvement and 2 for a big improvement. What do you think the quality of "a good listener" might score? I think you see where this exercise is going! Using each of the wheel categories, ask your client, Would having a partner with a good sense of humour enhance that area of your life? Now after comparing to the 8 wheel categories, a "good sense of humour" might score 5, improving fun, friends and family, your home environment, your health and maybe even your career if you have a lot of social events to go to! Next, imagine, your client has listed the quality of "A good sense of humour". Using each of the wheel categories, ask your client, Would a tall or curvy life partner enhance that area of your life? Would it enhance their "Finances", "Career", "Personal Growth"? After asking this question for all 8 categories on the wheel, "Tall" or "Curvy" might get a score of 1 for "Significant Other". Working with ONE of their ideal partner's personal qualities at a time, ask your client to give each 'ideal partner quality' a score of 1 for each category on the Wheel of Life that would be improved by having a partner with that quality.Įxample: Imagine a client has "Tall" or "Curvy" on their ideal life partner quality list. ![]()
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